1.) ..Butch Girlfriends have a sensitive side with their femme!
So she's the tough, tall, baggy shirt/pants high top hotty! And you're the small, petite, girly, long haired beauty. You're a little wary of your girlfriend because of her insensitive side around her friends but deep down you and her both know that when she's alone she treats you like the princess you deserve to be treat like! And you love this because you know she only gives this treatment to somebody she loves dearly.
2.).. Your petty arguments, don't last very long!
You'll both have your ups and downs, you'll argue and you will be upset. But give it that smirk, or one lovey txt and you both start to miss each other and wonder what the hell happened!.. Usually resulting in making up, dinner, drink and hot sweaty "make-up" sex, (Not to mention the long lasting warm naked cuddles!).
3).. Want a big comfy T to sleep in? NO problem!
Your cuddly, warm protective butch will have you wrapped up in her hoodies, baggy T-shirts, hats you name it! You love to wear them because they are somehow way more comfier than yours! The great news is she loves to see you in her T-Shirts, why? Because they drown you and let's face it you look pretty sexy with your socks and frenchies on and just her T-Shirt, right?
4) She's so protective!
Butch lesbians are known for their over protective side, but this isn't because they are control freaks they are very territorial beings and what's theirs is basically theirs! She will fight for you, protect you, love you and God forbid anyone else if they laid a finger on you, She adores you!
5) dominance..
So femmes are pretty passive (most of the time!) and love it when they have their girl dominate them in the bedroom, it's true, hot and sexy! I'm sure most butch lesbians will agree, feeling her moan beneath you is pretty amazing right?.. Spice things up a little! Let your femme girl ride you or perform oral, you will both love the experience and your sex life will be great if you mix roles every now and again, enjoy!
6) social gatherings are pretty cool!
Especially when you are together, people love you both! ..why? Because you're the perfect couple. The hot tall butch and her girl around her arm, both laughing and smiling away enjoying the night. Youu will both definitely be in the spotlight let's put it that way, other lesbians will adore you both and want what you have!.. "So is she the guy in the relationship?", this is something that is often asked at social gatherings and it's pretty annoying and could be quite awkward if taken badly! Try to smile politely and walk away, let's not spoil the night, or just say yes! Flick your femme hair and strut away to your beautiful butch prince..cess.
7) The Healthy jealousy
Let's face it, all the girls want her right? And this can get pretty annoying, everyone knows you are both in a relationship, she would never cheat on you, but she's just so irrisistable to other women?! You look behind you and there's a line of drooling men and other butches chasing after your very feminine beautiful looks, but let's face it you just want her! Healthy jealousy in moderation is great for a relationship, it makes you both protective over eachother and value one another. Don't worry you both love each other enough to ignore your admirers, be flattered, but you have eachother and you LOVE it! With a little healthy jealousy every now and again it should stay that way.
8) You can't wait to start your lives together!
So you've been dating for a few months and decided to make it monogamous and a real relationship, you're already thinking about moving in together in the near future and getting engaged etc... WHY? Because you can't wait for the rest of your lives to start together! You finally both have what you need and you have met your best friend/lover. Butch and femme lesbians are statistically known to make better lesbian relationships, take things slow and keep each other happy it's going to be a beautiful ride!
9) You're scared to lose eachother
It's hard enough in a world where you are judged for being who you are or what your sexuality is, never mind being able to find the right girl for you! It's taken you so long to find her and if you're thinking of someone right now, that's her! Right?.. As long as you both have a healthy relationship, have fun, go enjoy yourselves, give each other space and time! Then there is definitely nothing to worry about, she's yours, you're hers!
10) Cuddling
Okay so cuddling your big, cuddly, warm, sexy butch is pretty great right?.. You come home after a long day at work or whatever you have been doing and she's there, in her boxers or favourite bedtime T-shirt and she is all yours. the great thing is she loves it too! Cuddling de-stresses you both and can often turn into a lot more fun, there's nothing more that she loves seeing than her sexy little femme climbing into bed and on top of her for a long lasting cuddle and kisses before bedtime.